I am not afraid of living authentically. Even if that means telling people, “No,” in response to “Are you okay?” Even if that means telling people, “I want time to myself,” in response to, “Want to talk/hang out?” I previously posted about my newfound ability to be outspoken and that has assisted in my ability to truly live as myself, authentically, unapologetically. I’m not afraid to be honest. But I also know how to pick my battles. Sometimes it’s best to keep my peace by not speaking up and bringing up a conflict. Usually if it’s a one-time thing, I hold my tongue. If it’s a recurring pattern, then yes, I definitely do bring it up.

It’s hard to figure out where the line is between something that’s worth talking about and something to just wait out. I usually err on the side of talking things out anyways because if it really is nothing to be concerned about, then a short talk will get me over it and I no longer need to bottle it up. Other things I need to learn how to be patient with. Patience is definitely not my strongest virtue, and currently in my personal life, it is being tested heavily…