It honestly amazes me when I talk to people and they understand exactly what I’m talking about. I had been talking to a wall during my past relationship with K because he never understood empathy or compassion or how his actions affected me. Yet when I explain the same exact concerns I had then with other people, they completely understand how hurt I was. Why was it such a hard concept for him?! God. Makes me so glad I left. Can’t fix what someone refuses to acknowledge is broken.