Victim Blaming

Victim blaming is a very sensitive topic. Any sentence portrayed in a specific way can be dangerous to the mindset of victims. Horrible things do not happen to you because of how you look, what you wear, or what you do. Because a woman is pretty does not mean she has a higher risk of being drugged. There are circumstances that align that make an unfortunate situation happen and the way a woman looks is not one of those factors. It’s all about opportunity and circumstance. Each man has a different idea of what a beautiful woman is as well. What an attractive woman to one man may not be attractive to another, and that has no causation to why a woman gets drugged. There are hundreds of women in a club and not all the pretty ones get drugged in one night. Only one or a few, but the men that drug the women are the problem, not the women.

It could very much be that the only circumstance to get drugged in a club or bar is vicinity. You happen to sit down and a man next to you notices. The man roofies your drink and you’re out like a light.

A man who attempts to roofie a woman is not picking his targets carefully. He is going with what he can get. The ultimate goal of drugging a woman at a club or bar is the opportunity to take advantage of the woman. It really doesn’t matter what a woman you don’t know looks like when it comes to sexual advances. Sex is sex. Boobs are boobs. Ass is ass. Men will take any advantage they have, even if it means preying on a woman who just happened to sit down next to them.


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